How to boost your relationship when things start to turn stale

Want to revive your stale relationship? Many people in relationships usually reach a point where the chemistry vanishes. Now, this is usually because of getting comfortable. This is someone you have been with for a while then the heat that you had just fades away slowly until its no longer there. The mystery is gone.

How do you revive such a relationship?

As a couple, you need to find things to do during their relationships that will bring excitement. This is the only way that you can make the relationship come back to life. Below are a few things you could try out.

Do something active together

indoor rock climbingAsk yourselves, what is it that you used to do together that made your lives exciting when you met? Revisit those things. If you loved dancing then go dancing. Alternatively, try something new. For instance, you could choose to try out indoor rock climbing or hiking. Do things that will bring you two closer together. Don’t let the fire die out completely. Revive it while you still can.

Spice things up in the bedroom if you feel you have a stale relationship

Try new things. Take it up a notch. Apparently, role-playing usually works. Why not meet up at a bar at different times and let the dude court you afresh? Behave like strangers. Like you are meeting up for the first time.  Will he be able to convince you the second time around? If he manages, then you will have that exhilarating feeling you had when you met.

Play games. Use toys. Try anal sex. Watch porn together and act out what the actors are doing. Some liquid courage might come in handy. Take advantage of that.

Going on a holiday

People think of holidays as something that is expensive. However, this doesn’t need to be so. Even a night out at a motel that isn’t your normal environment you are used to will spice up a  stale relationship. You don’t need to break the bank. Just get out of your comfort zones and go have some fun. Trust me, you owe it to your relationship to just try.


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